1) Identify one of the examples of ancient marriage described by the author and discuss how it differed from the "one man, one woman idea" of marriage
Throughout history the motives of marriage change between cultures. Some cultures regarded marriage as means to seal a truce, of trade, or even inheritance. In Tibet, some marriages were not the idea of "one man, one women" of marriage we have today, instead a group of brothers would share one wife. While in other cultures traditionally followed the rule that one man could have as many wives as he could afford.
2) Among which two groups has postponing marriage become the most likely? Why
Two groups that are most likely to postpone marriage are: poor and middle class couples. Some feel that their early twenties is not a proper time for marriage because they want to focus on their careers. However, another reason is because of financial reasons. Marriage can cause one to become dependent financially on their spouse and also if the marriage ends it can cause financial chaos.
Marriage Tradition: Covering the Bride with a veil
The jewish religion calls that the bride be covered by a veil until after a prayer where the groom unveils her face. This dates back to the bible where Rebecca covered her face when her groom Issac had arrived. This is supposed to be a sign of modesty and purity.
I do not know if I would like to get married or not. However, if I do it would not be a traditional wedding. Although I would probably want to wear white, I do not see the point in having a bridal party or flower girl, or even rings. I feel that if I did want to get married, the ceremony should revolve around myself and my partner, and not let the idea of a "wedding" take over why the ceremony is actually taking place.
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